聪明人不合群，我们一起来听。
什么是最好的社交呢？最好的社交一定是势均力敌的，无须逢迎讨好。
内心存压力，最好的社交一定是互相搭台的，没有负面能量让你生烦恼。
社交的意义在于见多识广，学人长处在于认清自己，增加乐趣，而有些社交圈以消遣为主。
游戏人生无真心实意，只剩攀比，这样的圈子有臂无力，需要你敬而远之。
圈子不同，不必强融。
有些人觉得喝酒打牌是人生的意义，有些人把勤奋耕耘当成未来的目标，不一样的人，有不一样的追求。
不必为了面子融入和自己志向不一的圈子，自己的人生自己规划好，没有谁能替谁负责。
人心不同，不必同行。
有些人揣着真心交朋友，有些人带着面具出感情。
不要把不同路的人请进自己的生命。有些人你若不懂拒绝，他，只会在你的世界兴风作浪。
给你带来数之不尽的烦恼，聪明的人不会把太多的人请进生命。同鹭为友，陌路，不求。
刻意合群不如独处。
喝酒的人只会催你干杯。打牌的人只会拉你玩乐，不同的人总会对你有不同的影响。有些人只会耍嘴。
能同甘不能共苦，与其参与无效的社交，浪费时间和精力，不如多深耕自己，让自己在独处中更有底气。
优秀的人自带光芒。
成年人的社交都是靠实力来说话的，聪明的人从来不去混圈子，而是花时间拓展自己，当自己优秀了。
会遇到更多志同道合的人。
主动去讨好的圈子，费心费力，被人看不起。自身吸引来的圈子势均力敌，没人敢小瞧。
当一个人自带光芒，总会有人荧光而来。
Smart people are not in a group, let's listen together.
What is the best socializing? The best social interaction must be evenly matched, and there is no need to greet you.
With internal pressure, the best social interaction must be on each other, and there is no negative energy to bother you.
The meaning of social networking is to be knowledgeable. The strengths of scholars are to recognize themselves and increase fun. Some social circles are mainly for entertainment.
Game life has no sincerity, only comparison is left. Such a circle has weak arms and requires you to stay away.
The circles are different, so there is no need to force them together.
Some people think that drinking and playing cards is the meaning of life. Some people regard hard work as their future goal. Different people have different pursuits.
You don't have to be in a circle with different ambitions for the sake of face. You plan your own life by yourself, and no one can be responsible for others.
People have different hearts, so you don't have to travel together.
Some people make friends with a sincere heart, and some people wear masks to show affection.
Don't invite people from different paths into your life. If you don't know how to refuse, some people will only make trouble in your world.
Bring you countless troubles, smart people will not invite too many people into your life. Friends with heron, strangers, do not ask.
It is better to be alone than deliberately.
People who drink alcohol will only urge you to toast. People who play cards will only pull you to have fun, and different people will always have different influences on you. Some people just talk about it.
To be able to share joys but not to share sorrows, instead of participating in ineffective social interactions and wasting time and energy, it is better to cultivate yourself more deeply and make yourself more confident in being alone.
Good people have their own light.
Adults rely on their strength to speak in their social interactions. Smart people never go in circles, but spend time to expand themselves and become outstanding.
Will meet more like-minded people.
Take the initiative to please the circle, take pains, and be looked down upon by others. The circles attracted by oneself are evenly matched, no one dares to look down upon.
When a person brings his own light, there will always be someone fluorescent.